The current ‘atmosphere’ of dating and relationships seems to be circulating the feeling of “I want it – but do I?”. I walk past young lovers in Paris (I’m in Paris at the moment) and see a lot of couples enjoying the energy of the city and each other – playing flirting games of […]
So what’s the first thing that comes into your mind when I say intimacy? That’s a clue as to what’s healthy or unhealthy about your attitudes and approach to intimacy.
Now, what’s the first thing that comes into your mind when I say Healthy Sex? Is it vigorous, racy or is it soft, tender?
There is […]
Do you ever wonder why it’s so hard to get out of stubborn family arguments? Or do you find yourself in emotional drama that you REALLY don’t want, but keeps resurfacing in your life?
All our emotional drama was first played out in the early stage of our life as a child.
I was talking with […]
Do you ever feel like, in an effort to improve your romantic relationship, you try to “fix” yourself—be nicer, sexier, less demanding, or more attentive … only to continue feeling disrespected and that your needs are not valued by your partner?
If so, you should know you absolutely deserve better! More importantly, you can begin […]
As we reach the end of 2017, I’ve witnessed a lot of people shake their heads and think “the world is crazy”.
What I think they are also referring to is that feel their lives are out of their control.
If we look at what we are being asked to surrender when we face a world […]
One of the most common concerns I see for women in particular (but some men as well) is that they can’t be happy when they’re single and not following the society norm of being married on in a relationship.
These days you don’t have to be married to have value, but a lot of women […]
Hmmm – do you want to get married or are you looking for a soul mate?
One of the reasons I made this video, is the rising interest people have in ‘finding a soulmate’ – that makes marriage seem a little plain old vanilla and dysfunctional.
I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with marriage. But the […]
If you are in a committed relationship or looking to build a committed relationship, when you have your definition of the behaviors, thoughts, feelings and attitudes required to honor someone’s journey – then you can actually attract and build on that personal definition.
What does “honor your partner” mean to you?
The marriage vows of ‘love, honor and obey’ […]
If you are in a committed relationship, you often fall into habits or conditioned responses of expecting your partner to sacrifice their needs for what you want – or vice versa!
The video shares how we have adopted sacrificing our needs or expecting our partner to do what we want – often from watching our parents.
Giving love and being loved is a basic human need.
How do you give to others? And how do you receive affection – or go looking for it.
Humans are naturally programmed to give affection or give of their heart – we can see that through children. But as we grow up – some times the […]