One of the most common concerns I see for women in particular (but some men as well) is that they can’t be happy when they’re single and not following the society norm of being married on in a relationship.
These days you don’t have to be married to have value, but a lot of women feel they have no value if they are not with a special someone they can come home too.
And while I understand every human being longs to belong – it is too stressful to keep thinking there is something wrong with you because you are not in partnership.
The more you think there is something wrong with you because you are single – the more you will keep focussing on the very thing that prolongs unhappiness.
This video below is to get you thinking about the purpose and reason for you being single.
Your state of being single is often an important development of your self-power.
I do not believe that you have to ‘love yourself first’ before you meet someone. Sometimes the opposite happens, people find themselves in a relationship and learn to love themselves through the genuine support or inspiration of the relationship.
But – if you want to be happy when you’re single – the first step is to take the pressure off thinking there is something wrong with you. And the video goes on to offer you questions such as:
What are you learning about you that you wouldn’t have learnt if you were in a relationship.
Check out the video below: