My Coaching and Healing discerns what is the core emotion and satellite emotions, belief system and behaviors that you operate from in your life, what I call your LOVE PATTERN, which is what your soul has come to learn. I teach that the soul chooses your personality (introvert, extrovert, the country you were born in etc) your parents and your life story in order for them to learn how to overcome love challenges.
I teach that sometimes the challenges do not make LOGICAL sense – that’s why we look at the emotions to understand why the soul chose these emotions and what the soul/person has come to learn – so you can giving meaning to your suffering – but not suffer from the suffering. The person also chooses a certain BODY to learn certain lessons – and these are connected to what they need to learn. In the Body of Love: 10 Steps to Love Yourself and Your Body, I teach how to listen to and talk with your body and I am writing a new book series The Secrets of Finding your Authentic Body.
In these times of the “SHIFT” from old paradigm to new paradigm, many couples are experiencing high levels of discontent because male and female models are shifting from being FIXED to being FLEXIBLE. We are still anchored in the heart through love – but male and female roles are being asked to surrender attachment to what we expect the other person to be or behave – so we can grow into higher forms of love which are not constrained by our society. And instead, connect to universal forms of love where we see the whole person and accept them without going into what our mind may think or expect or want the other person to be.
Higher forms of love are now available because the planet is evolving into higher consciousness, which the planet has never had access to before. Therefore relationships are shifting in their dynamics. Couples are being challenged to rise beyond their bickering or mind-chatter to themselves to ask what is truly love – for them – individually or as a couple. As a consequence OLD fears (from this life and previous lives) are surfacing where ANY and ALL hurts experienced will be re-experienced – so we can let them go and forgive.
Couples at this time have greater support from the higher forms of love now supporting the planet to do this WITHIN the relationships. I as coach, help couples and individuals and groups learn about this and teach them how to support themselves and/or their partner as the OLD hurts come up to be recognized and finally processed.
How I am different to others coaches:
I do not believe that if someone “fails” at a relationship that they are not loving themselves efficiently or that they are missing a process that will keep the mate or save the relationship.
I believe the relationship does not succeed because we, the couple and OUR society, fails to provide spaces or opportunities for people to deal with the hurt.
Only when the hurt is faced and accepted will the individual be able to let it go and come to the relationships with JOY.
I am in process of creating a coursework – HEALING RELATIONSHIPS an ONLINE coaching program for 2014 where people will address the old hurts and create a safe vessel for them to come to their relationship with love.
Please email me with your interest to enroll in the HEALING RELATIONSHIPS course or a complimentary one on one session: firstname.lastname@example.org