Love and Relationships

3 Ways to Move on from Toxic Relationships

Hear the part of you that is crazy, repetitive and destructive

Don’t keep pushing your crap under the carpet.

Half the time we live in agony because we are fearful of facing our doo-doo and think somehow if we avoid it – it will go away – it won’t.

When you accept your mess without trying […]

Passion in a Relationship – Its Importance

What puts a dampener on your relationship? Nothing is worse than feeling “here we go again”, feeling the relationship is going over the same territory without a way out.

A lot of us can’t find joy in our partner because we become comfortable with routine and then we get dissatisfied with that routine as if […]

By |May 13th, 2014|Categories: Love and Relationships||1 Comment

Why is it hard to talk about intimacy?

Why is it hard to talk about intimacy?
Very few of us agree on what intimacy actually means. What comes to mind when you think of intimacy? For some it’s a sexual closeness, for others it’s sharing emotionally and for others it’s a sense of feeling safe with someone. Intimacy is hard to talk about […]

When your partner can’t hear your emotions

In my family I was the black sheep, the odd one out and they didn’t understand me, I used to question why they thought the way they did. They said I was too sensitive. I was too vulnerable. I used to talk to myself but somehow I knew this behavior wasn’t acceptable to others, […]

Committing to relationships with the shift in the New Era

With the shift in relationships and marriage, what is commitment in ANY relationship?

Whether its a work relationship, a community relationship, a commitment to wake up in the morning and show up – all of our commitments these days are open to a lot of questioning.

The very structure of traditional model of marriage is no […]

When love is there but the sex is gone

Gina answers your love questions.

I still love my partner but we just don’t have sex anymore, what do I do?

They don’t seem to have a problem with the lack of sex either!

This question arises more questions…

One needs to understand that there are many different reasons why people choose not to have sex anymore…. […]

How do I know when to say “I love you”?

Gina answers your love questions
How do I know when to say “I love you”? What if my partner doesn’t feel the same way about me?
Real love is unconditional…

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the […]

By |October 30th, 2010|Categories: Love and Relationships||0 Comments

How do Women take charge in Love?

Here is Gina’s (aka Goddess Magenta) advice on my question for September:

How does a woman take charge in a relationship? Should I always let a man be “the man”, What does leadership look like for a woman in a relationship?

How does a woman take charge in a relationship? By […]

By |October 12th, 2010|Categories: Love and Relationships||0 Comments

Is it possible to make any relationship work?

Gina answers your love questions
How do I know when I’m with the wrong guy or girl? Is it possible to make any relationship work?
Very good question for this month….

How do we know if we are with the wrong guy or girl?

INTUITIVELY WE ALL KNOW!!

Yes, we probably don’t want to hear this answer….

and OF COURSE….  […]

The Importance of Touch

I watched the panic in my friend’s eyes when her newborn child made first contact with this world. “Quick! Put the baby on your chest. Make sure she gets skin contact”. Sure enough, her husband was already cradling the babe on his chest at peace with the miracle of holding life in his arms. […]